Dealing with children’s eleven tricks
Has your baby lost his temper?
Did the baby start to have “suggestions” and turned a deaf ear to your words?
How do you respond?
Taking a hard-hitting approach can only make the child’s rebellious psychology more serious, and does not prevent trying the following methods: 1. Have a little humor to make the atmosphere less nervous and serious.
For example, you want your child to take a bath in the bathtub, but he just refuses to go. If you force him into the bathtub, or reprimand him, things will definitely get worse.
May wish to give the child a little humor: “The bath water is poured. See who has a calf running fast. Tell your little butt and let him sit in the bathtub.
“A language that is different from usual will give the child a sense of freshness, so he will be happy to accept parents’ suggestions.
2. Let your child relax.
If the child says no to everything, it may be good to give him all the ridiculous choices and guide him to keep staring at you. At this time, he will relax his vigilance and focus on those ridiculous issues, so youThen you can find the opportunity to drag him where you want him to go, or let him do what you want him to do.
3. Turn tasks into fun games.
Children like games, and if they turn tasks into games, I believe he will be more willing to accept them.
For example, he always does not want to go to the toilet, and therefore always wet his pants. Parents can carry him up when he estimates he is going to the toilet: “Now I want to carry this gun and let him fire a bullet in the toilet.
“Suggestions like this will make your child forget his quickly and follow you obediently.
So the task of going to the toilet became a fun game, and he couldn’t say it.
4, let the child voluntarily accept the task.
Prepare some books for your child, or write some interesting stories for him, so that his task becomes his expectations.
Or the parents make demonstration actions, but they are not required to do it at all, he will have the desire to imitate because of curiosity.
5. Utilize your child’s rebellious psychology. When you want your child to do something, say the tasks you want him to complete instead. At this time, he may do according to your actual requirements.
6. Sometimes, if the child does not understand the true meaning of the parents, he will not hesitate to accept it.
Therefore, when looking at the task with the child, look at the child with eyes and give the task to him very seriously, so that he will understand that you are not joking with him, and he will not just say it casually.
7. Take turns with the children.
Because the parents do the same thing, and everyone has the opportunity to do this kind of thing, and must do it according to certain rules, so he will find it very interesting, and generally will be willing to accept the parents’ suggestions.
8, leave children alone.
If the child does not heed the advice of the parents, ignore him, restore the parents ‘attention to him, and make him feel boring. After a while, he will understand that this is not a good way to attract parents’ attention, so he will try to change.
Children around the age of 9 and 2 generally like to do it themselves. Therefore, when the child says no, parents can find ways to encourage him to use this opportunity to show his ability, and he will be happy to come by himself.
10. If there is a younger brother or younger sister at home, encourage the child to be a good role model for the younger brother or younger sister.
He will try to play this role.
When the mother said, “Can you show your little brother how to eat yourself?
“The child must be happy to give a demonstration to the younger brother.
11. When you want your child to do something, it is best to give him two choices, one is what you want him to do, and the other is what he does n’t like to do. Usually, children will choose what you want him to doThat thing.